Negative thoughts you have now and how to rethink them:

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Instead of: I’m wide awake. I’ll never be able to fall back to sleep!
Try:
  • It may take some time to get back to sleep, but eventually I will.
  • If I get out of bed and do something relaxing, I will start to feel sleepy before too long.
  • It’s normal to feel alert if I wake up during a dream; I’ll feel drowsy soon.
Instead of: I will not be able to function tomorrow.
Try:
  • Most of the time, I do a good job at work, even if I didn’t sleep well.
  • Since I just got a promotion, I must be doing a good-enough job.
  • I may not feel my best, but I will be able to get the important tasks done.
Instead of: I must get eight hours of sleep.
Try:
  • People vary in how much sleep they need. Not everyone needs 8 hours.
  • I’m working towards improving the quality of my sleep right now. It will take time to improve the amount of time I sleep.
Instead of: I slept very little or not at all last night.
Try:
  • I didn’t sleep as much as I wanted last night, but I did get some sleep.
  • I wish I had slept longer last night, but I’ll probably sleep better tonight.
Instead of: I cannot fall asleep without a sleeping pill.
Try:
  • It took me a long time to learn to sleep poorly. It will take some time to unlearn poor sleep as well.
  • This approach works for most people with insomnia, so it will work for me too.
Instead of: I will never learn to sleep better.
Try:
  • Most cases of insomnia are due to learned thoughts and behaviors, not mental health problems.
  • Insomnia is very common. It affects more than half of Veterans.

Reminders

  • It is not an event that creates your negative thought but your perception of the event and how you think about it.
  • Recognize unhealthy thoughts with extreme words such as “always” or “never.”
  • Disputing unhelpful thoughts can be done by rethinking them or looking at them differently. This behavior creates a more realistic thought.